When you go on a bunch of dates with different people you can easily fall into the trap of overthinking those folks’ actions & motivations. “Why didn’t this or that person call me after they said they would?” “Why did they say we would go camping this weekend, and then ghost me?” Your friends tell you, “Forget that person. Live your life. It doesn’t matter why they didn’t call you. You deserve someone who calls when they say they will. ” I say the same thing to job seekers, who can (understandably) fall into the trap of overthinking ...